By Jennifer McDougall
When a loved one struggles with drug or alcohol abuse, deciding to enter rehab can be a transformative milestone in their journey toward lasting recovery. At Passages Malibu, we have seen firsthand how dedication, expert guidance, and holistic treatment can profoundly affect an individual’s life. However, despite the best intentions, it’s not uncommon for someone in rehab to want to leave early. Whether it’s due to discomfort, fear, or sudden pangs of self-doubt, these urges can sabotage the progress they’ve made and set them back on their path to sober living.
If you find yourself in the difficult position of watching a loved one express the desire to leave rehab prematurely, you are not alone. Many families and friends face this scenario, torn between respecting personal autonomy and ensuring meaningful healing isn’t abandoned. In this article, we will explore why individuals may feel compelled to leave rehab early, the dangers of an early exit, strategies to encourage them to stay, and how Passages Malibu is uniquely positioned to offer a supportive, revitalizing experience that addresses the root causes of addiction.
Why Do Some People Want to Leave Rehab Early?
1. Fear of Change and the Unknown
Any significant life change can trigger anxiety, and rehab is no exception. According to research published by the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), fear of the unknown—such as changing habits, facing unresolved trauma, or confronting long-standing emotional pain—can lead a person to retreat into what feels familiar. Unfortunately, that “familiar” environment often includes substance abuse. At Passages Malibu, our individualized one-on-one approach recognizes these fears. It works to address them directly, helping clients understand that the unfamiliar can also be the gateway to profound healing.
2. Withdrawal Discomfort
The detox phase can be physically and psychologically taxing. Although our team at Passages Malibu uses state-of-the-art detox methods to minimize discomfort, withdrawal symptoms can still be challenging. Some individuals might feel overwhelmed by the intensity of detox, prompting them to leave before their bodies and minds stabilize. It’s essential to remind your loved one that these symptoms are temporary, and professional support makes a world of difference during the most challenging stages of withdrawal.
3. Lack of Self-Belief
Some people battling substance abuse come in with the belief that they are “beyond help.” They might experience a few tough days or weeks and conclude that treatment just isn’t working for them. These limiting beliefs can impede progress and fuel an early departure. Reinforcing hope, celebrating small wins, and sharing success stories—like our co-founder, Pax Prentiss—can go a long way toward restoring faith in the recovery journey.
4. External Pressures
Family obligations, work responsibilities, and financial concerns can all cause individuals to second-guess their continued participation in rehab. They may believe they can handle everything at once, insisting they must return to their everyday routine prematurely. Education about the long-term cost savings and life benefits of comprehensive treatment often helps clients and their families realize that the time spent in rehab is an investment in a healthier, more productive future.
The Dangers of Leaving Rehab Early
Leaving rehab prematurely can lead to serious repercussions. The Journal of Substance Abuse Treatment has found that longer durations of treatment are generally associated with improved outcomes. Recovery is a process that requires adequate time and professional guidance. By leaving early, individuals often miss out on crucial therapies that address the underlying causes of substance abuse. This increases the risk of relapse, negates the progress made during detox and initial therapies, and may necessitate a return to rehab in the future—often under more urgent and severe circumstances.
Strategies to Encourage Your Loved One to Stay
1. Communicate Openly and Non-Judgmentally
Effective communication can help your loved one voice their concerns. Approach them with empathy, asking what is triggering their desire to leave. Let them know you appreciate their feelings, whether those feelings stem from fear, anxiety, or discomfort. A calm, understanding tone can often diffuse tension and help them see the bigger picture of why they sought help in the first place.
2. Reinforce Positive Outcomes
Remind your loved one of their progress so far. As they navigate the emotional and physical toll of early recovery, they might lose sight of the small yet meaningful improvements they’ve made along the way. Celebrate every milestone—however small. Whether it’s successfully completing detox, forging deeper relationships, or experiencing newfound mental clarity, consistent encouragement can reignite their commitment.
3. Enlist Professional Support
Sometimes, a loved one needs direct intervention from a trained expert. Encourage them to share their concerns with their counselor, therapist, or a staff member at Passages Malibu. These professionals can often offer strategies for managing withdrawal symptoms or confronting emotional struggles. They have a deep understanding of the nuances of addiction and are equipped to deliver solutions that instill renewed motivation.
4. Highlight the Holistic Benefits
One distinguishing feature of Passages Malibu is our holistic, non-12-step approach, which addresses the root causes of addiction. This means that if your loved one feels as though group meetings or standard “one-size-fits-all” methods aren’t a good fit, we have a variety of individualized and complementary therapies—like massage, acupuncture, and spiritual counseling—that could be more aligned with their comfort level and personal beliefs. Emphasizing these unique treatment options can help reignite a sense of purpose and hope.
How Passages Malibu Helps Prevent Early Departure
Experience Passages Malibu
When our clients arrive, they are greeted with panoramic ocean views, luxurious accommodations, and a friendly, empathetic staff. Our emphasis on safety, comfort, and individualized care helps reduce the urge to “escape” from treatment. The soothing environment encourages clients to remain and undergo a transformative experience that targets mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
Tour Passages Malibu
We invite you to take an exclusive look at our serene oceanfront property. Our in-depth tour showcases our non-12-step treatment methods and the luxurious amenities designed to support all facets of healing. Whether it’s a peaceful meditation garden, our full gym with personal trainers, or the plush bedding in private and shared bedrooms, each element of Passages Malibu aims to create an atmosphere where individuals can feel nurtured and respected.
Detox with Compassion
Detox is often the most physically challenging phase of the recovery journey. At Passages Malibu, we offer medically supervised detox protocols supported by our 24/7 nursing staff. We recognize that discomfort can be a significant factor in wanting to leave rehab, so we employ a careful, individualized approach. Our doctors, nurses, and holistic specialists collaborate to ensure clients feel supported and informed about every step in their detoxification process.
Residential Treatment: A Comprehensive Approach
Following detox, clients typically transition to our Residential Treatment Program. This phase offers various holistic therapies, including individual psychotherapy, acupuncture, massage, and equine therapy. Instead of labeling individuals as “addicts” or teaching them they have an incurable disease, Passages Malibu fosters a space where the focus is on discovering and healing the underlying causes of substance abuse. By offering clients personalized therapy sessions—14 to 19 sessions per week, depending on the program—we optimize the chances of true, sustainable recovery.
Individual and Group Treatments
One of the keys to our successful program is the blend of individual treatment and group therapy modalities. We provide a unique selection of methods, such as:
- Acupuncture and Acupressure: Helping release tension and restore the body’s balance.
- Music Therapy and Art Therapy: Creative outlets that promote emotional expression.
- Marriage and Family Therapy: Addressing relationship dynamics to reinforce supportive home environments.
- Recreation Therapy and Personal Training: Encouraging physical fitness and overall wellness.
This flexible, holistic approach can keep your loved one engaged and present, reducing feelings of restlessness that might otherwise lead to an early exit.
Remaining Connected to the Outside World
Unlike many treatment centers, Passages Malibu does not require clients to live in isolation. We permit the use of cell phones and laptops, allowing individuals to stay connected with family or manage business obligations. This balanced policy can help mitigate concerns over external responsibilities—a common trigger for leaving rehab early—by showing clients they don’t have to choose between their personal life and receiving comprehensive care.
Credible Research Backs the Benefits of Comprehensive Rehab
According to The Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA), the best addiction treatment programs balance medical, psychological, and social interventions, all while offering adequate duration for therapy. NIDA’s research also confirms that longer treatment stays improve the likelihood of sustained recovery and reduce the risk of relapse. Our holistic approach at Passages Malibu aligns with these findings by incorporating robust, evidence-based practices in an environment that promotes physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
An Invitation to Transform
If you’re worried that your loved one is on the brink of leaving rehab early, know that there is still time to inspire a change of heart. Open communication, genuine empathy, and a reminder of the transformative power of a holistic program can often be enough to rekindle their motivation. Here at Passages Malibu, we take pride in offering a safe haven for healing and an unparalleled experience that addresses the individual’s entire being—mind, body, and spirit.
Residential Treatment at Passages Malibu
From innovative therapy methods to plush bedding and tranquil meditation gardens, every aspect of Passages Malibu is designed to support a life-changing transformation. Our family-owned and operated treatment center has been a trusted leader in holistic rehabilitation since 2001. Accredited by The Joint Commission, we maintain the highest quality, safety, and exceptional care standards.
Tour Passages Malibu
We understand that seeing is believing. That’s why we encourage you to schedule a tour of our breathtaking grounds. Picture your loved one waking up to panoramic ocean views, fueling themselves with nutritious gourmet meals, and partaking in a wide variety of tailor-made therapies that address the core reasons behind their substance abuse issues.
Take the Next Step
Your loved one’s desire to leave rehab early doesn’t have to be the end of the line. With understanding, hope, and a supportive treatment team, there is every reason to believe they can complete their program and step into a healthier, substance-free future.
If you have any questions or need guidance on keeping your loved one on track, contact Passages Malibu at (888) 397-0112. Our compassionate staff is available 24/7 to listen, advise, and ensure you both feel empowered to continue the journey toward healing and freedom from addiction.
Remember: rehabilitation is more than just stopping harmful substances—it’s about discovering and healing the underlying conditions driving the behavior. At Passages Malibu, we believe in the limitless potential of each individual and stand ready to nurture that potential through holistic, individualized care. Don’t let fear or doubt derail a promising path to recovery. Reach out to us, explore our facilities, and trust our commitment to world-class treatment that honors each client’s dignity, hopes, and dreams.
Passages Malibu — Where the past can stay in the past, and a new, promising future is within reach.
